Self-help program
7. Creating routines
Morning routines, getting from one place to another, and meals go most smoothly when there is a solid plan in place. Thanks to the plan, you don’t have to think through the steps and their order every time.
How can you create a routine?
The best routines often form almost naturally. For example, observe when your morning routine goes particularly well. Then decide to act the same way in the future. Write down what you did and the order in which you did it.
You can also draft and experiment with routines, and then adjust them as needed. The important thing is to make a clear decision about what you intend to do and in what order.
In the following video (1:39), experts discuss why routines are good and how to create a new routine.
What kinds of things can become routines?
A routine can relate to a single daily task or to a larger time period, such as a week or a month. For example:
My morning routine
- waking up
- going to the bathroom and brushing teeth
- getting dressed
- breakfast
- grooming (brushing hair, etc.)
- putting on outdoor clothes and going outside
My after-work routine
- putting outerwear and bag in their places
- washing the lunchbox
- checking the evening schedule
- relaxing on the couch (30–60 min)
Weekly routine
Mon: taking care of important matters
Tue: varies
Wed: gym
Fri: cleaning and laundry
Sat: rest and self-care
Sun: planning the following week
Writing a routine down makes it easier to remember and follow. Mark routines in your calendar and follow them consciously and carefully.
It might feel awkward at first, but gradually new routines become automatic. A solid routine makes life easier and reduces stress.
Find routines that suit your life
In the following video (1:20), people with difficulty concentrating describe which routines have improved their well-being and made their lives more balanced.
Exercise: My new routine
Why?
A solid routine makes life easier and reduces stress, as you don’t have to repeatedly think about and organize the same things.
In this exercise, you will introduce a new routine that helps your daily life run more smoothly.
How?
Start by choosing one clear routine for yourself.
Think about what you would like to establish a routine for. It could be, for example, a morning routine or a weekly routine. A routine can also relate to less frequent situations, such as exercising or cleaning.
Consider the different steps involved in the routine and number them. You can decide how many steps your routine includes. However, one routine should not have too many or overly detailed steps.
Repeat the routine a few times before evaluating whether it needs adjustments.
Modify the routine if you need to. Once this routine works, you can create the next one for yourself.
Remember
Practice using new routines before deciding whether they suit you permanently.